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Chained Males – 4 of 4

Richard — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 15:27:39 +0000

Chain Male #1 – Four of Four

Vintage Leather BDSM photography.

Chained Males – 4 of 4
BDSM Romance - Notes on Power Exchange and S&M by an Erotically Electic Guy

Chained Males – 3 of 4

Richard — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 15:24:59 +0000

Chain Male #1 – Three of Four

Vintage Leather BDSM photography.

Chained Males – 3 of 4
BDSM Romance - Notes on Power Exchange and S&M by an Erotically Electic Guy

Chained Males – 1 of 4

Richard — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 15:20:09 +0000

Chain Male #1 – One of Four

Vintage Leather BDSM photography.

Chained Males – 1 of 4
BDSM Romance - Notes on Power Exchange and S&M by an Erotically Electic Guy

Chained Males 2 of 4

Richard — Sat, 03 Mar 2012 10:50:40 +0000

Chain Male #1 – Two of Four

Vintage Leather BDSM photography.

Chained Males 2 of 4
BDSM Romance - Notes on Power Exchange and S&M by an Erotically Electic Guy

Male / male BDSM Art by Waldo

Richard — Sat, 01 Oct 2011 11:49:46 +0000

I’ve long known of French BDSM artist Waldo’s F/m and M/f illustrations. It was yesterday that I discovered that he’s also produced gay male BDSM images.

See Waldo´s Web Pages

Male / male BDSM Art by Waldo
BDSM Romance - Notes on Power Exchange and S&M by an Erotically Electic Guy

Blonde Boy’s Spanking

Richard — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 18:31:03 +0000

Paul Baresi being a blonde young man such a severe OTK hand spanking. He must have just started since the youth’s buttock’s are still white.

Varieties of Corporal Punishment

Blonde Boy’s Spanking
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BDSM Is Sexual Orientation

Richard — Tue, 06 Sep 2011 11:25:02 +0000

Sadomasochism Comprises Sexual Orientations

I got this unexpected email:

I’ve been fascinated with this concept since finishing Elise
Sutton’s Female Domination. . .. have to
wonder, how do you get a submissive to get on it if he isn’t
“willing” or he has the inner strength to submit to such.
Seems I would really have to have a good reason.

Beyond getting a non-submissive boyfriend to play bedroom games she’d fail. He’d eventually get tired of it and leave. There’s always the chance of latent submissiveness but there’s no winning in striving for the unlikely.

People need to understand that BDSM – D/s, S&M, Bondage, Humiliation – these erotic needs, desires, inclinations are issue of sexual orientation. Just as much as gender orientation.

The sadist or masochist can’t stop being who they are anymore than a gay man can be converted by Marcus Bachmann into a heterosexual.

Being dominant or submissive is an issue of inner nature. Qualities settled in us when we were innocent children. Fighting against your sexuality only leads to unhappiness.

And people are kinky in their own individual way. And there desires and pleasures often modify in the presence of a top or bottom they really enjoy being with.

If you are a sadist, dominant or masochist, submissive person and your lover or spouse doesn’t share your needs then you need to either leave the relationship or arrange for your partner to your exploring BDSM with others.

BDSM Is Sexual Orientation
BDSM Romance - Notes on Power Exchange and S&M by an Erotically Electic Guy

Predicament Bondage: Testicle Leash

Richard — Sun, 21 Aug 2011 16:44:27 +0000

Young Richard had just discovered his same sex loving component and it reallyh shook up his world. He moved to the big city (Atlanta) where there were many exciting things not to be found back home in Savannah.

Like adult bookshops. I never became a habitué. But it was a good place to begin the study of homosex.

Back then there were these really trashy, sleazy sex tabloids. I bought one. It was filled of things not dreamed of in my philosophy. Like butt plugs. Who knew such things existed. Why did they exist? (Something I’ve yet to understand.)

There were things that grab my imagination and would color my BDSM fantasies forever.

There was a crude drawing of a man in bondage. His neck collar as connected to a testicle collar. Movement would pull at his balls or squeeze his neck.

I’d just discovered predicament bondage. Maybe the drawing is why my testicles are so deeply connected with submissive emotions (otherwise they are just there unless I – ouch! – bump into something).

The response of my internal plethysmograph testify to how testicle bondage excites me.

Predicament Bondage: Testicle Leash
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Varieties of Corporal Punishment

Richard — Thu, 28 Jul 2011 16:27:06 +0000

Spanking vs Whipping

I just added some future posts on FLR.Net so I felt I should try to post something here as well. But first some vintage M/m spanking photographs.

You know, when I see a slim guy like that I want to be the one providing the punishment. But I also feel a little annoyed with my switchiness wanting to stay within my submissiveness. Odd, eh?

As a man who enjoys vintage erotica I like the photographs (produced by the venerable Athletic Model Guild).

But hand spankings don’t stir me.

For me corporal punishment is the supreme kinky act, the fantasy primeval. I was eight the last time I was punished physically. By then my masochism was fully alive or I eroticized that whipping. Sometimes I imagine the insanse rage my father would’ve experienced had I ever been foolish enough to share that with him.

Daddy whipped me with a belt that day. He had me drop my pants and bend over the bed. Belts and switches were the exclusive instruments for my few childhood punishments.

So belts and switches were what I imagined being whipped with when my masochistic fantasies started around age eleven.

When – as is the way with masochists, it explains why so many of us become nutty when frustrated – those objects stopped satisfying my dreams of pain I started working in household objects.

Electrical cords – especially knotted cords and car antennas for example. Wet towels. I can’t help but think I would’ve seen men being lashed with whips in old pirate movies. But no recollection remains. From movies I got hot coals (a fantasy I eventually outgrew) and the rack (who the heck can afford one?).

I fantasized about being beaten on very piece of furniture in my parent’s house. And in various positions my body contorted in manners often impossible.

But never being spanked by hand.

Many years ago on AOL a man was interested in meeting me whose idea of corporal punishment were limited to spanking me by hand. So I never met him.

A strong person’s hand can surely cause pain. But the foolish fetishist – even nice ones – are prisoners of their passsions.

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Varieties of Corporal Punishment
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Dominant Woman’s Pleasure in Her Sadism

Richard — Sat, 23 Jul 2011 17:46:31 +0000

Thanks to Netflix I’ve seen some but not all of Showtime Australia’s soap opera set in a bordello, Satisfaction.

In the episode “Staples, Guns and Roses” Kestie Morassi is shown using staple gun on her submissive playmate’s feet.

That I’ve had that fantasy isn’t the point. When her vanilla lover comes on the scene there are moments when her face is contored by the exalted state she is in from satisfying her dominant and sadistic needs.

That she seems overwhelmed by her sexuality makes this a very moving scene. There are plenty of clips of women hurting men. But they are only earning money. No shame in that. Nor any thrill.

Dominant Woman’s Pleasure in Her Sadism
BDSM Romance - Notes on Power Exchange and S&M by an Erotically Electic Guy