Sexism?

Do dominant women share any of the responsibility with submissive men for the sexist psychological stereotypes of Femdom. [...]

Male Orgasm Denial as Pure BDSM

Enforced male chastity as a form of submission should reach beyond stereotypes of gender roles and masculine insensitivity. [...]

Master Nice Guy Finishes Last

Do vanilla men who post profiles on BDSM dating sites understand that people are looking to be hurt and degraded? [...]

Disparity of Desires in D/s

Asymmetrical needs, uneven desires in sadomasochistic relationships. Resentment and the lack of communication. [...]

Emotional S&M

Many tops who enjoy physical sadism do not like or even understand an emotional masochist’s desire for humiliation and degradation. [...]

The Case of the Vanishing Submissive

Men and women who end relationships by refusing to answer emails, instant messages, phone calls. [...]

About My Profiles

Personal ads, profiles of a BDSM bottom in Durham, NC. [...]

Submissive Male in Durham, NC

Slavish, masochistic guy in Durham, North Carolina. [...]

Happy Masochist

Searching for a sadist in Durham, North Carolina. [...]

Owner Worship

The most slavish of my profiles seeking a local master, owner, top. [...]