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Male / male BDSM Art by Waldo

Richard — Sat, 01 Oct 2011 11:49:46 +0000

I’ve long known of French BDSM artist Waldo’s F/m and M/f illustrations. It was yesterday that I discovered that he’s also produced gay male BDSM images.

See Waldo´s Web Pages

Male / male BDSM Art by Waldo
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Sane Masochist

Richard — Mon, 06 Dec 2010 17:11:05 +0000

On Recon I was running a profile with the colorless but plainspoken handle of Sane Masochist.

I’ve played with various user names and profile texts on and off since I first used the web to meet people back in 1999.

Sane Masochist attracted almost no profile views. The fewest of any profile that I’ve posted to Recon. Since no one read the profile it wasn’t the text but the name itself.

Nobody wanted a sane masochist. I’ll see how a more exiting name fares.

Sane Masochist
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Master Nice Guy

Richard — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:30:32 +0000

When I original read this guy’s profile I thought it a very good example of a positive profile by a likeable top. But there was nothing that could be cleanly excerpted.

Then he wrote me:

Although some others on this site similarly indicate that is what they are looking for, most of them only want one time meetings as such or only in role playing situation.

Your Hard limits seem reasonable and mean while your soft limits seem flexible enough that I believe we might be compatible.

I want you to read my profile, and keeping in mind that although I list several interests I clearly state that none of them are mandatory.

After reading it take the time to write back to me and let me know if you agree that we MIGHT be compatible.

None of that off-putting manner by strangers who think writing “Tell SIR why you should be allowed to become His worthless scum slave property” is a way to say hello.

The guy I quote above doesn’t drive, nor do I so nothing will come of that.

Master Nice Guy
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Slaves and Apes

Richard — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 16:00:42 +0000

A self-proclaimed – it isn’t as if there’s a licensing authority for the term – Old Guard Master shares his view of the M/s power exchange:

The distance between Master and that of Slave is greater than the Distance between Man and Ape.

The Master is African-American so given the recent media furors over the racial implications of images of primates this is an exceptionally unfortuneate metaphor.

But would be a damn silly assertion to make outside of BDSM porn anytime.

Slaves and Apes
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About My Profiles

Richard — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 04:43:28 +0000

Because my sexuality is fluid and mercurial I can say many different – even seemingly contradictory – things about my desires and needs that are all conditionally true.

In my online profiles I’ve tried various strategies for honestly capturing my sexual and affectional orientations. To be honest without confusing or overtaxing the reader.

A proper profile for myself as a submissive and masochistic man would need to be a small website of about twenty pages. Since my changes are slim I’ve never actually put out the effort to construct such. (Though I did create one consisting of several pages in the time shortly before Charles.)

What you may get out of my profiles is contingent on your expectations, inclinations and patience.

About My Profiles
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Commune

Richard — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:05:42 +0000

Norman’s Twelve Houseboys

Several times a guy pushing a “Family Commune” has attempted to attract my attention. The profile he has posted on behalf of the Master he no longer reads with is fairly long.

It opens like a cross between a bad self-help book and an invitation to join the local Baptist church:

Are you tired of living alone?
Are you yearning to belong…and to be part of a family?
Are you a caring, nurturing person and wish you had ‘something bigger’ to contribute to?

Are you emotionally vulnerable? A target for schemes?

Master is currently searching for a very nice, upscale place in beautiful South Florida to form a small and S-A-N-E family / commune / community.
There will be some nice rooms to rent to a few select, natural servant / slave / sub type men.

He is looking to buy a house and to find some suckers to make the mortgage payments?

Of course, you will keep your regular 9-5 life. And you will have your personal space and time.
However, your dedication to your family commune should come first.

Of course the cult will be the priority.

And though this is a roommate situation, there will still be some structure; like domestic duties, fellowship, eating and outings together, etc.
And, if you wish, assisting Master! (I had the honor and pleasure to do that for some time. How wonderful that was.)

So you only have to serve Master if you want to.

An ideal candidate must be submissive, humble, honest, and dedicated to serving.

Someone that can be pushed around?

You could possibly be there part-time only (ex. weekends) but you would have to pay full rent, as you would still have your own room available to you anytime.

The main thing is pay the rent.

ABOUT YOU:

First, truly wanting to belong and be part of a family situation must be a priority.

You should be desperate, needy.

Be easy to be around and able to fit in with your new family. And you must be spiritually open.

Open to what Pentecostalism? Human sacrifice?

Family combined with commune makes me think of Charles Manson. Probably not that kind of thing going on here. Though there are so many cunning and disreputable people who come up with imaginative ways to bilk people …

Really it sounds like an attempt to get a bunch of submissive guys to make someone’s house payments. I’ve seen other online profiles by men that are obviously hoping to manipulate for profit slave-identified males.

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Commune
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Gay Male BDSM Imagery

Richard — Sat, 02 May 2009 03:02:32 +0000

Since I sometimes use vintage homoerotic Leatherman photographs here I thought I’d point out that one of my other sites sometimes features Gay Male BDSM art and photography. You’ll have to dig through the appropriate category archives.

Leather!

Gay Male BDSM Imagery
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Leather Bondage Techniques

Richard — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 12:02:30 +0000

If there is a saint of consensual sadomasochistic pleasure it would be Larry Townsend. He was first. Whatever we might write he already said it. We merely add glosses and grace notes.

(Townsend inverted the colors of the illustration when he published these. I’ve flipped the colors back for online legibility.)

The sadist looks like he’s having fun. Hopefully his slave is as well.

What would a male masochist do without genitormenr? Not sure exactly is happening down there.

Two slaves punish a third. Bondage is the future it mysteriously says. The hand at the bottom appears to be holding a remote control. Perhaps to shock collars on the two guys standing?

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Attention Whores

Richard — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 20:31:50 +0000

Very likely all online dating/hooking sites have such a feature. A button you can click on a person’s profile to express esteem without having to trouble with the actual composition of a message. On Recon it is called cruising someone.

At first the cruising that came my way made sense. The other guy’s profile was in some way complementary to mine. Nothing came of this. The men lived far away and were expressing approval of my profile.

Time passed and I started getting more and more cruises from distant men. Increasingly there was no match. If the profiles too minimal to have meaning or incoherent. One fellow had clearly just banged on the keyboard a few times. It might have been a monkey’s profile.

And some of them would cruise me repeatedly. But it didn’t really feel like the man in France with a profile in French was really trying to get me to write to him. He could’ve written to me.

Eventually a pattern began to emerge. These guys all had galleries. Usually photos of themselves, often more than a hundred. These guys are all attention whores.

This was confirmed for me when I read the profile of a man in Boston who sent me a cruise. It was a nice profile. So I looked at gallery of photos he took of his lover /slave. The next day I got a message from him demanding that I cruise him. After all hadn’t I looked at the photographs he’d put up.

Some of these guys are so diligent they get over a thousand profile views a month. Maybe a few of them are trying to increase the chance they’ll meet a compatible guy.

Some of them are probably men who are Masters or slaves only online. Their only validation in their perceived role is in having their profile and gallery looked at and being virtually cruised.

You can opt out of Recon’s cruise system.

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Attention Whores
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SIR

Richard — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 19:00:37 +0000

I am variously amused and aroused by over-the-top tops, er, excuse me, MASTERS.

The regularly scheduled whipping was the one thing I got out of The Story of O. But I don’t deny being as silly as the next masochist.

Old Guard TOP that believes every morning starts with a whipping and every evening ends with a whipping just as normal, daily routine to keep the mind in the correct place throughout the day. (Note that is a whipping, NOT a spanking)

The last line below kills most guys’ normal response to a personal ad.

SIR is a FIRM believer in total chastity n orgasm control, a faggot is never allowed to masturbate, faggotslave will go years, maybe a lifetime, without masturbating. So, SIR does NOT care about faggots endowment, one inch is even more than enough for a faggot. SIR is NOT interested in seeing PICS of faggot hard endowment or cum shots.

Talk about control freaks. Sounds like SIR isn’t easily bored.

Breathing, sweating n blinking come to mind as about the only things that a faggotbitch may do without SIR’S prior permission.

A new version of pansexuality.

Being a good sub/slave is not about romance or sex and SIR is not looking for a sex object. So, gay, bi or straight makes little difference.

In a way this isn’t a bad question. But – really now – many things wouldn’t be done if they weren’t felt to be humiliating.

How can it be HUMILIATION if MASTER orders it? Shouldn’t faggotbitch be proud rather than humiliated that faggot pleased the OWNER?

SIR isn’t very sociable.

If hundreds of miles apart n SIR has not listed that SIR is visiting faggotbitch area or faggotbitch is not visiting SIR’S area, DO NOT waste SIR’S time unless faggot intends to send SIR a ticket to visit faggotbitch area.

Once you start writing about lifetime orgasm denial you’ll attract all out of control submissive guys.

Wonder how many people actually meet up with the guy.

Your Profile Is So Exciting To Me Sir

SIR
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