Criticizing Tops

Some sadists, Doms and Dommes are crazy and unrealistic. Acknowledging that does dismiss the joy or submitting to a sane top. [...]

Master Nice Guy Finishes Last

Do vanilla men who post profiles on BDSM dating sites understand that people are looking to be hurt and degraded? [...]

LOL!

How some tops and dominants make their profiles sound foolish and ignorant. [...]

Dominant vs Dominate

Why do so many tops – dominant persons – publish such atrocious personal ads and profiles? [...]

Master Very Confused

Male dominant posts several profiles with minor, meaningless variations among them. [...]

Mistress Stupid

What if an illiterate, careless, even stupid Mistress or Master writes to you expressing interest? [...]

Paranoid Masochist

Possibly innocent man inspires extreme fear in experienced but suddenly timid masochistic submissive male. [...]

Christmas Season Profiles

Too many empty personal ads. A man with a blank profile writes to me. What did I do wrong? [...]

Sane Masochist

Durham NC: BDSM profile failure using the handle sane masochist. [...]

BDSM Profiles During Holidays

How does use of online hookup, dating sites change during Christmas? [...]