In Praise of Professional Dominatrices

Sure there are bad Prodommes. And maybe dominatrix stereotypes are a problem. But a good professional dominatrix can enable a man to achieve sorely needed satisfaction. [...]

Sexism?

Do dominant women share any of the responsibility with submissive men for the sexist psychological stereotypes of Femdom. [...]

BDSM Is Sexual Orientation

Being a sadistic or dominant person or masochistic or submissive person is a key part of personal identity. It can’t be changed. [...]

Ruined Orgasms Theory & Practice

Not quite a ruined orgasm FAQ, or even a definitive summary. Masochistic men want their orgasms ruined: how is that accomplished, it is really possible. [...]

Male Orgasm Denial as Pure BDSM

Enforced male chastity as a form of submission should reach beyond stereotypes of gender roles and masculine insensitivity. [...]

Vanilla Dominatrix

Advice on turning a vanilla relationship into a kinky BDSM one. [...]

Dominant Woman’s Pleasure in Her Sadism

A female top’s face transformed by her happiness in control and inflicting pain on a willing playmate. [...]

Disparity of Desires in D/s

Asymmetrical needs, uneven desires in sadomasochistic relationships. Resentment and the lack of communication. [...]

About My Profiles

Personal ads, profiles of a BDSM bottom in Durham, NC. [...]

Warning to Submissive Men

Don’t pay money to learn about femdom, male submission or converting your wife to BDSM. [...]