What Really is Male Submission?

What are the key, basic qualities that make a person – of any gender – honestly and responsively sensitive to the dominant? [...]

BDSM Is Sexual Orientation

Being a sadistic or dominant person or masochistic or submissive person is a key part of personal identity. It can’t be changed. [...]

Male Orgasm Denial as Pure BDSM

Enforced male chastity as a form of submission should reach beyond stereotypes of gender roles and masculine insensitivity. [...]

Funny Woman With a Whip

A sadist might be a comic. A scene or session might have qualities of comedy. [...]

Verbal Sadism

Many bottoms crave verbal humiliation. Many dominant person do not enjoy and will not engage in spoken sadomasochistic play. [...]

Disparity of Desires in D/s

Asymmetrical needs, uneven desires in sadomasochistic relationships. Resentment and the lack of communication. [...]

Under Master’s Boot

Or Mistress’ shoe or foot. The joy of enacting humility that is both actual and emblematic. [...]

Uncertain Topping

In BDSM dominant persons who feel hesitant or insecure may diminish their own satisfaction and that of their submissive partner or playmate. [...]

Slave Training

Armbinders, hoods and gags. [...]

Junior Master

Alpha slave trains beta slave. [...]