Mistress Stupid

What if an illiterate, careless, even stupid Mistress or Master writes to you expressing interest? [...]

Paranoid Masochist

Possibly innocent man inspires extreme fear in experienced but suddenly timid masochistic submissive male. [...]

Christmas Season Profiles

Too many empty personal ads. A man with a blank profile writes to me. What did I do wrong? [...]

The Case of the Vanishing Submissive

Men and women who end relationships by refusing to answer emails, instant messages, phone calls. [...]

Advice : Neediness

Do you choke on your own emotional desire? Are you so needy that it distorts your behavior and personality? [...]

I Want, Er, Ah … ?!?!

Vague, meaningless BDSM profiles and personal ads on sites like alt.com. [...]

Advice : Balance

Don’t let your neediness nor horniness cause your presentation of yourself to become unbalanced. [...]

Verbal Tag

Frustration in getting people to clearly state their desires when replying to a BDSM profile or personal ad. [...]

No Shows

Submissive men make arrangements to meet dominant women and then don’t arrive for their appointment. [...]