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		<title>Comment on Man / Male Bondage Photograph Gallery 4 by doll</title>
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		<dc:creator>doll</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 06:34:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wonderful to see a bondage photo with the macrame so prominent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wonderful to see a bondage photo with the macrame so prominent.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Contempt Play by Richard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 22:50:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whatever works for you is what you should cultivate.

But your needs aren&#039;t my needs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whatever works for you is what you should cultivate.</p>
<p>But your needs aren&#8217;t my needs.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Contempt Play by Switch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Switch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 21:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I personally like a Dom that takes charge and has fun with the play.  FUN!  Making me wear what they want, or inserting this and that, or making public time tedious.  That is really fun and as much as I hate it, I also love it.  But, the line is drawn when they are not nice.  I gravitate toward people I enjoy, respect, and trust.  Correcting a mistake is an opportunity to train, not be mean.  And when they start with the personal name calling, I am pretty much done.  I once had a Dom call me a &quot;piece of shit&quot; when we first met.  In my head I thought, &quot;then why would you want me around you if you dislike me so much.&quot;  They were surprised and apologetic when I had no interest to do ANYthing with them.  Either inexperience or simple rudeness ended that relationship before it took off.  

When I am the Dom, I treat my subs with care and cherish the trust they give to me.  When I dress, or undress, them to my delight - I show my delight and they work harder to do better.  One boy lost 2&quot; off his waist over 4 months, lots of gym work.  He said he wanted to please me more, when I used him.  So cute.  He hates to wear nylons, so that is what he wears under his pants anytime I meet with him.  I may call him &quot;my bitch&quot; and will make it clear, I value my bitch.  I only want strong and good people in my service.

It is all fun, when it isnt, it is a good time to decide on the reason for the relationship.  That is my two-cents as a switch.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I personally like a Dom that takes charge and has fun with the play.  FUN!  Making me wear what they want, or inserting this and that, or making public time tedious.  That is really fun and as much as I hate it, I also love it.  But, the line is drawn when they are not nice.  I gravitate toward people I enjoy, respect, and trust.  Correcting a mistake is an opportunity to train, not be mean.  And when they start with the personal name calling, I am pretty much done.  I once had a Dom call me a &#8220;piece of shit&#8221; when we first met.  In my head I thought, &#8220;then why would you want me around you if you dislike me so much.&#8221;  They were surprised and apologetic when I had no interest to do ANYthing with them.  Either inexperience or simple rudeness ended that relationship before it took off.  </p>
<p>When I am the Dom, I treat my subs with care and cherish the trust they give to me.  When I dress, or undress, them to my delight &#8211; I show my delight and they work harder to do better.  One boy lost 2&#8243; off his waist over 4 months, lots of gym work.  He said he wanted to please me more, when I used him.  So cute.  He hates to wear nylons, so that is what he wears under his pants anytime I meet with him.  I may call him &#8220;my bitch&#8221; and will make it clear, I value my bitch.  I only want strong and good people in my service.</p>
<p>It is all fun, when it isnt, it is a good time to decide on the reason for the relationship.  That is my two-cents as a switch.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Macho Man in Bondage by Richard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 11:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It surprises me how often erotic photographers and models don&#039;t seem to understand how to please the viewer. Something they should want to do for purely mercenary reasons.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It surprises me how often erotic photographers and models don&#8217;t seem to understand how to please the viewer. Something they should want to do for purely mercenary reasons.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Male Slave in Christmas Bondage by Laura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 08:18:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had an idea for taking a Christmas angel post with the man I was dating. The relationship didn&#039;t work out so the photos never happened.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had an idea for taking a Christmas angel post with the man I was dating. The relationship didn&#8217;t work out so the photos never happened.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Macho Man in Bondage by Laura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 08:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>They almost look bored or like they are just standing there to humour whoever was taking the photo. It does spoil it and make you wonder what the point is. Really lacking the element of danger.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They almost look bored or like they are just standing there to humour whoever was taking the photo. It does spoil it and make you wonder what the point is. Really lacking the element of danger.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Male Slave in Christmas Bondage by doll</title>
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		<dc:creator>doll</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 07:26:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yummy!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yummy!</p>
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		<title>Comment on In Praise of Professional Dominatrices by Richard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2011 19:13:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What I quoted was just what I had at hand back when I wrote this. I&#039;d run across so many that were much worse.

My masochistic component could find &lt;em&gt;some&lt;/em&gt; pleasure even with paid for BDSM. But my submissive part would never be able to connect.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What I quoted was just what I had at hand back when I wrote this. I&#8217;d run across so many that were much worse.</p>
<p>My masochistic component could find <em>some</em> pleasure even with paid for BDSM. But my submissive part would never be able to connect.</p>
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		<title>Comment on In Praise of Professional Dominatrices by doll</title>
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		<dc:creator>doll</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2011 11:20:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Richard,

perhaps the original writers comment was not a dismissal of pro-dommes but an acknowledgment of needing to be the domme she wants to be. I have similar concerns. Guy approach me all the time wanting to submit to me but in reality they want me to meet their fantasies they don&#039;t really want to submit to my fantasies. So to be the domme they want I would need to become a pro-domme and do it for financial reward as I would be working and not getting the reward that I want.

I do have a sub, he gets what I want to give him, luckily that often coincides with what he wants and it is nothing like what he would get if he was paying to have his fantasies met.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Richard,</p>
<p>perhaps the original writers comment was not a dismissal of pro-dommes but an acknowledgment of needing to be the domme she wants to be. I have similar concerns. Guy approach me all the time wanting to submit to me but in reality they want me to meet their fantasies they don&#8217;t really want to submit to my fantasies. So to be the domme they want I would need to become a pro-domme and do it for financial reward as I would be working and not getting the reward that I want.</p>
<p>I do have a sub, he gets what I want to give him, luckily that often coincides with what he wants and it is nothing like what he would get if he was paying to have his fantasies met.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hello world! by Mr WordPress</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr WordPress</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2011 02:32:07 +0000</pubDate>
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