Ten Quotes about Labels in BDSM

Labels, Damn Labels & Statistics: labels confine, define, explain and confuse human sexuality & need to be used with a special mix of clarity and whimsy. [...]

In Praise of Professional Dominatrices

Sure there are bad Prodommes. And maybe dominatrix stereotypes are a problem. But a good professional dominatrix can enable a man to achieve sorely needed satisfaction. [...]

Attitude Adjustment

Male slave conditioning, mind control, psychological domination by a controlling, strict Master/Top. [...]

Diminishment

Limitation and dehumanization as part of submission and psychological masochism. [...]

Consensual Erotic Sadomasochism: Words of Joy

A list of words capturing my delight in BDSM, S&M, being a submissive, masochistic man. [...]

Punishment

The difficult to settle concept of punishment in a BDSM power exchange (D/s, M/s) relationship. [...]

Ten BDSM Crimes

Examples of failure to be risk aware, psychologically realistic, humane, clear thinking. [...]

Eleven

11 words and their personal BDSM context for me. [...]

20 Dicta About D/s & S&M in the 21st Century

Twenty BDSM adages, aphorisms, apothegms, axioms, catchphrases, sayings, maxims, mottos, precepts, proverbs, slogans for the post=postmodern age. [...]

Ten Great Things About D/s & S&M

A list of some of the personal satisfaction I’ve found in BDSM. [...]