A profile that captures perfectly one of the most common fantasies of absolute, unadulterated M/s relationships:
In my opinion a Master is completed by his slave/pup – a successful Master is a Master who shapes his slave into reflecting his personality and brings out the features of the slave that enhances these. An owner who has the ability to be everything for his slave, who can take over the slave’s free will and make him totally submit to the slave life, that a true slave ultimately seeks: being fully owned and stripped of free will as well as not having to make any choices in his personal life.
Imagine having to be everything for someone. Only a egomaniac – or a hopelessly naïve person – could imagine achieving that status.
Hence a successful Master has embraced and acknowledged his superiority and wants to share his life with an inferior person. Such a Master will know his desired direction and means to get where he wants to go with his life. With him, in this process, make sure the slave works in the same direction, and pursues the same goals as his Master.
It is always important to remember: superiority is granted by the Department of Poetic Licenses, which are invalid in real space-time.
A slave is not a slave if not owned by a master! A successful slave is – in my opinion – a man who has willingly given up his freedom and free will, to a person who is his superior. A successful slave will go through fire and ice for his Master. He is fully obedient as he knows the Master will know best. The success in itself is not as much the submission, but the full acceptance and embracement of the mentality of the submissive within. The slave should be ready to totally submit on all levels, and give up every aspect of free will and let his Master be in charge of him with no exceptions!
Will the Master also plow through fire and ice for the slave? How is this different from any over-the-top relationship? This is what husbands and wives have been promising one another for ages. Sometimes they even do it.
A successful slave has eliminated every concept of self and embraced his Master and his Masters will totally.
Not being a Buddhist the idea of eliminating sense of self sounds disturbing. This kind of psychologically untenable expectation is just a disaster waiting to happen.
A successful Master slave relation is a relation where the Master respects the choice of the slave, and gives his slave meaning with the pursuit of becoming his object. Where the slave respects and obeys the master, and where the Master becomes more and more incorporated into the slave until the slave is no longer an individual, but has become an extension of his owner. A symbiosis, where both parts achieve the completion of what is ultimately the natural state of mind: the unification of two individual life’s into a higher state of life.
No longer an individual. Just a little slave robot with no personality. I’ve always been irked by all this higher state species of chatter. It just means the writer’s penis gets hard when he thinks of all this. And erections – like being drunk or stoned – often make men feel they are having or picturing experiences special profundity.
I don’t think the Master who wrote this is a bad person. A bit silly. And perhaps hoping for a relationship where any reason for insecurity, possibility of failure has been eliminated.
Not that I don’t understand the appeal – on both sides. But only fools forget that interpersonal entanglements are complicated, subject to capricious acts of god, health and so many other things.
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It’s so over the top. I kind of get the fantasy, how that works, but I can’t imagine how you proceed in a relationship if this is your stated goal up front. I think this is a better kind of thing to save for pillow talk (or during-sex talk) between couples in a long-term d/s relationship where both are turned on by it.
I very much get the appeal of absolute control. My submissive fantasies are full of total subjugation scenarios. But I know in real life I’d be able to stand it for a couple of hours maybe. Certainly not as a ‘lifestyle.’
Yeah, see, that’s why instead of making it the goal of the whole relationship, you save it for scenes and things to whisper in your partner’s ear in bed.
The problem is that…. The fact that we can’t really maintain that “lifestyle” like Richard said. I see it as a relantionship based only in raw sex… Where the feelings of the bottom are not negotiable. This “lifestyle” it’s more like having a baby…. Because you have to feed your bottom, dress him/her, bath him/her…. That kind of stuff… Once you have accomplished that, well, the rest is pretty simple… It’s hard yes, because we as humans need to say our feelings, we need advise, we need a shoulder where to cry, and with a bottom we can’t do that… That’s why it’s so difficult, and that’s why this life we must have it in secret of an equal of ours, but falling in the lack of thrust between each other… We can get there, but out our own peril…..!!! and with the acknowledge that it’s going to be really hard to carry out