http://bdsmromance.com/bdsm-personal-ads-profiles/written-by-tops/how-to-not-find-a-submissive-female Notes on Power Exchange and S&M by an Erotically Electic Guy Tue, 08 May 2012 19:14:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://bdsmromance.com/bdsm-personal-ads-profiles/written-by-tops/how-to-not-find-a-submissive-female#comment-104 roo-roo Mon, 05 May 2008 22:44:39 +0000 http://www.bdsmromance.com/?p=41#comment-104 I see this kind of ad from submissive men all the time. "sub looking in NY" or "sub seeking mistress" are pretty common. I can just see a dominant woman sitting at her computer (wearing leather head to toe and 6" heels since everyone knows that's what all <i>real</i> dommes wear 24/7) and thinking, "Ooh, yeah, he's submissive! That means we're a perfect match! My lucky day!" People who post things like that (I'm reluctant to call them personal ads) don't seem to understand that it's a real person they're fishing for; and real people aren't one-dimensional. There are plenty of other aspects to peoples' lives, and to ignore those other aspects is insulting. I see this kind of ad from submissive men all the time. “sub looking in NY” or “sub seeking mistress” are pretty common. I can just see a dominant woman sitting at her computer (wearing leather head to toe and 6″ heels since everyone knows that’s what all real dommes wear 24/7) and thinking, “Ooh, yeah, he’s submissive! That means we’re a perfect match! My lucky day!” People who post things like that (I’m reluctant to call them personal ads) don’t seem to understand that it’s a real person they’re fishing for; and real people aren’t one-dimensional. There are plenty of other aspects to peoples’ lives, and to ignore those other aspects is insulting.

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