The idea that others may have multiple profiles disturbs some people.
Is this some subtle erotic hypocrisy? Who are we hoping to fool? What do we have to hide?
One advantage of creating alternative profiles and personal ads is to emphasize different aspects of our sexuality.
Many people don’t read past a profile’s heading or first paragraph. Should the profile actually contain more than one. So even if you are strictly submissive but open to both casual play and a serious romantic commitment you may want to insure that you capture the attention of both kinds of searchers. The more a person is open to exploring the more easily confused some people are.
Even the best intended of us may judge a personal ad by too few words.
Switches suffer from a special curse. People often assume that if someone is a switch they want to be both dominant and submissive in every encounter or relationship. That most people are either tops or bottoms is something every switch quickly learns.
Much online reading is hasty: presenting nuanced editions of yourself is about emphasis, not concealment. Who really wants the extra work it requires?
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